Stevan, sorry that this is causing so much frustration. Since we unfortunately can't promise to allocate resources to this (not saying it won't happen, but our resources are limited and the things for them to do many), if this is causing you problems in your business you might consider asking or hiring someone to look at the source code and find the problem. We generally do integrate fixes from developers competent at creating and submitting them. As a developer and not a sales person I unfortunately can't say if there is a way for you to purchase this support from Oracle, but if you are using VirtualBox in a business-critical way a support contract might make sense for you.
